The 7 Ways To
Develop Smart Personality
1.
Have a GOAL in Life
2. Be
willing to get KNOWLEDGE
3.
Carry yourself with CONFIDENCE
4.
Communicate with ENERGY
5.
Have a good sense in DRESSING
6.
Stay HEALTHY
7.
Develop good HABITS
1. Have a GOAL in Life
Nothing
happens without a cause. If you decide to live your life aimlessly and
leave
everything to fate, your development and progress will be determined by
luck.
The disappointing truth is that luck rarely happens. Even if you are at the
bottom,
don’t fail to dream high. When you can see opportunity, opportunity
would
seek for you. Don’t give up on setting your dreams and goals in life.
Having
an aim in life gives you natural motivation everyday. It gives you the
energy
to wake up every single morning and look forward to life. It creates a form
of
positive affirmation towards life and it will eventually have an impact on your
personality.
You would automatically get a sort of charisma from your own
personal
motivation!
2. Be willing to get KNOWLEDGE
The
way of success is the continual pursuit of knowledge. It could be acquired through your education or the specialized
skills you learnt from trainings.
Knowledge
in education is only potential power unless you can intelligently apply
them
in your life or work.
No
wise man would want to befriend a fool if they have a choice! If you do not
know
what is going on around the world, you’re only going to be left out in
conversations.
Not only must you have general knowledge but you also got to be
great
in your specializations at work or school. Frequently update yourself with
the
latest news from: i) Informative TV programs ii) Online newspapers iii)
Communications
with people who are intellectual iv) Books, Articles etc.
Sharing
knowledge with people gives you the ability to easily connect with people
and
have an influence over them.
3. Carry yourself with CONFIDENCE
Have
you noticed that you are naturally attracted to people who are radiant and
full
of poise? A person with confidence will draw the people around him
subconsciously
like
a magnet. Even if you are facing tough adversities in life, you
must
also learn to take things in a positive manner. Don’t slouch when you walk,
it is
very obvious to people when they looked at it. When you are making
handshakes
with people, do it firmly. Eye-contacts are an extremely important
tool
for you when communicating with people. Not only it shows that you are
confident
of yourself but you are confident of who you are looking at. It gives a
form
of respect to the other party and also shows your sincerity when
communicating
with him. Don’t always speak with conviction too. All these little
gestures
I mentioned earlier will show whether you are a confident person or not.
A
confident person shows no sign of insecurities within him. Any man or women
would
want a confident partner and that is especially true for women when it
comes
to dating! Remember, your confidence can even overcome all the
toughest
moments in life - The stage fright moments when giving a speech and
the
interview for your job.
4. Communicate with ENERGY
Many
successful people have a very different style when they communicate with
others.
They speak in a clear tone and in a forceful manner. Be cautious over the
command
of your language when you talk. Making grammar errors when you
speak
will only reflect badly upon yourself. Take note on your pronunciation too.
Be
excited in the ideas you are trying to bring across to another. The other party
will
also feel the excitement and willing to hear more from you. It makes you an exciting
person to be with. Communicating with energy is an important trait of adynamic
personality.
5. Have a good sense in DRESSING
A
person who has a good sense in dressing and dresses smartly is pleasing to
look
at. If you observe carefully to all successful people in any area,
entertainment,
business, arts etc, you would have noticed that these people
dresses
well too! It gives the person confidence and relaxes his mind. It gives an
aura
of a pleasing personality to the people around him. There would be a
cheerful
look on his face and elegance in his movements
Nobody
would want to employ a person who is sloppy in dressing for interview.
6. Stay HEALTHY
A
terminally ill person could receive huge amount of attention from people around
him.
However, the attention is short-lived and it is out of pity from people. To
stay
healthy
gives you a smart look on your face and it is even more attractive to
others.
With discipline and determination, one can improve his health. Work-out
regularly;
take a stroll in the park in the mornings – whatever you are more
comfortable
with. Have more fruits and vegetables in your meals. Drink plenty of
water
and have sufficient sleep. A healthy body is also one of the ways to boost
brainpower,
gives you a good facial complexion, provides immunity against
diseases
and most importantly, gives you the energy necessary for a dynamic
personality
7. Develop good HABITS
People
often over-looked certain negative habits which they possessed. They
may
feel that it is just an insignificant part of them that others would bother.
However,
the little habits that they have actually reflect upon their personality!
You
can also tell whether a person is meticulous from his habits. A lazy person
will
usually give himself away from his lazy habits. It’ll form a bad impression on
others.
Stay
clean, tidy and be punctual for appointments. Honor your promises; be
sincere
in your work and quit taking excessive alcohols or cigarettes. These
habits
will add sparkle and dynamism to your personality.
Give
people the friendliness and politeness within you. Remember that you have
to
keep your cool in all situations; only the fools will lose their composure and
worsen
the situation. Be humble and give in to the other party if you need to.
Nobody
would want to be with people who are proud and think highly of
themselves.
If you feel that people around you are avoiding you, it is time that
you
should do something and improve on your behavior. To have a dynamic
personality, people must feel comfortable around you.
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